Marla Martenson

Do you attract the same guy in a different pair of pants?

by Marla Martenson July 25, 2012

When we think about love, our soul mate, settling down and getting married, and so on, we often go back to our childhood thoughts on this subject. These thoughts condition how we think, and what we expect our relationships to look like.

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Nearly the One

by Marla Martenson April 17, 2012

How do you know if you have found the right one? Your soul mate? Sometimes, we just know it, and it works without a hitch; other times we go through a different process—a series of “near-fits” or “almost-matches.” But that’s okay. When this happens, these experiences can help us clarify our “don’t wants,” so we can turn them into “do wants,” and get that much closer to attracting the right person for us the next time around. It also reveals the importance of seeing that someone is the “almost the right one,” instead of “the right one.” This way you can let go of people who you are really not meant to be with in the long run.

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The Healing Power of Love

by Marla Martenson February 29, 2012

As a real-life cupid, I make love connections on a daily basis. Even singles who claim they are “burned out” or taking a break from dating” eventually jump back into the ring and have another go at finding their soul mate. No matter how many times our hearts are trampled on, we humans crave that connection, someone to come home to at night, someone to snuggle with and to grow old together.

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Get Fit & Healthy to Attract Your Soul Mate

by Marla Martenson January 15, 2012

February is the month of L-O-V-E, and everywhere we turn, we are reminded that Valentine’s Day is just around the corner. TV commercials push teddy bears, candy, pajamas, flowers, and cards. And shop windows are decorated to the hilt, making it impossible to forget that you do or don’t have a Valentine.

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